Prepare a solution with an assistant. Return ONLY JSON {"decision":"...","criteria":"...","format":"..."}. decision - the choice that stands before you; criteria - what is important to you when choosing (2-3 criteria); format - what you ask for at the exit (for/against the criteria, the next small step, the look of the devil’s advocate).
Decisions get stuck when everything is going through your head at once. The assistant helps to bring the choice out and consider it soberly. Mechanics: you formulate a decision and criteria (which is important), the model breaks down the pros and cons based on these criteria - and not random ones. Without criteria, you will get an abstract list of pros and cons that does not move you forward. Insider: ask not only pros/cons, but also 'what one small step will test this cheaply?'. Most solutions don't need to be solved in their entirety - just a cheap test. 'Will I move to another city' turns into 'I'll go there for 3 days'. Second trick: add 'play devil's advocate against the option I currently like'. The assistant will highlight the blind spot you don't want to see. It is also useful to ask 'how will I feel in a year with each option'. A common mistake: asking 'what should I do?' without criteria and its own context. Then you will receive average advice 'from the Internet', and not a solution tailored to your life and values.
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